How Does The Law Of Attraction Really Work?
There is a law that not everyone knows about. A universal law that affects and shapes our whole life. This law can either make your life better, or it can destroy you completely.
The first time I’ve heard about it, I’ve really taken it seriously and tried to test it. I’ve said to myself, alright if this is true, then I’ll forever live by this law.
How did I test it? Well, I had to think of something small that I could attract really fast, so I could prove to myself that it works.
I said, alright, I’m going to attract a banana into my life (Yeah, I know…) and now I’ll focus my thoughts on a banana. I thought about, I visualized my self having and eating a banana.
Then something magical happened. I went outside and a banana fell from the sky right into my face! Can you believe this? Neither do I, because that is not what actually happened.
But what really happened is, my friend called me and asked if I wanted to meet up. I got to my friends place (still visualizing a banana) and guess what? After staying there for like 10 minutes, he said “Hey, want a banana?”.
And I was like “YES I WANT A BANANA, I’ve been thinking about it all day long”.
After this proof to myself, I kept noticing things like this happening all the time. The small things kept manifesting into reality if I thought about it.
You’ve probably heard about the Law Of Attraction at least once in your life. If you ever heard of this term before, it probably got you wondering how does the law of attraction really work?
Well, the basic idea is, we attract and become what we always think about. Your thoughts are creating your life.
How Does The Law Of Attraction Really Work?
So basically, you have to shift your negative thoughts away and start thinking positively. If you’re always thinking about something negative, you will attract negative outcomes into your life.
What you have to do, is always think about positive things. Even if something negative is happening in your life, you must stay positive in your mind. Otherwise, you won’t be able to attract what you truly desire.
But it’s kinda tricky actually. You might not even realize that what you are currently focusing on, is actually bad for you and it’s attracting negative outcomes in your life.
What You Shouldn’t Focus On!
I’ll give you a few examples of what you shouldn’t focus on. Let’s say you’re in a relationship. And you don’t like a specific thing that your partner does. You will be focusing on that thing all the time and you’ll tell yourself how much you don’t like that your partner is doing it.
Or let’s say you have a job but you don’t like the amount of money you’re getting from it. You think you deserve more for what you do, so you always keep thinking how underpaid you are.
Maybe you keep thinking about how stressful your life is and you keep focusing on that all the time. Or you don’t like the way your body looks, maybe you’re a little overweight and it’s not your ideal body.
The point is, we tend to always think about the negative things that are happening in our lives. We focus on the things that we don’t like.
And the reason this is bad, is because in terms of law of attraction, we attract what we focus and put our attention on. If you’re constantly thinking about the things that you don’t like, you will attract even more things that you won’t like.
No Magic Is Involved Here
The law of attraction is not some sort of new age magical idea. It has been talked about for ages. It’s sort of like a secret that has been known throughout history.
Our thoughts are not magic, our thoughts do not literally attract all the outcomes in your life. Our thoughts actually generate the actions that we take in our lives.
Even if you don’t realize it, subconsciously we take actions based on our thoughts. Even the smallest things that we do, is because we think in a specific way.
Everything you think about will eventually be attracted in your life mostly through your actions that you might not even notice.
Thinking negatively can simply make you stressed and anxious. This alone will make you more insecure and have less confidence in yourself. Based on that, your actions won’t be as good.
Sometimes you might think about a certain situation and you imagine all the ways it could go wrong. You think about it so much that you actually take the actions that WILL make the situation go wrong.
Positive Attracts Positive
So now you know that you can attract negative outcomes if you keep thinking negative thoughts all the time. But you can also attract positive outcomes if you always think positive thoughts.
For example, if you have problems with money right now, don’t think about how broke you are. Think about how amazing it will be when you’re rich.
Instead of worrying about your problems, focus on creating something new. So when you don’t have a lot of money, think about becoming rich and think how you’re going to do it.
You simply have to forget about the money problems you might currently have if you want to attract a lot of money. Just relax!
Or let’s say your relationship is falling apart. Don’t think “what if we break up?”. Think how awesome it is to be in a relationship. Think about all the good things about the relationship.
If you think there’s nothing good about your current relationship, then the answer is simple! You forget your toxic partner and move on. Stop wasting time with someone who is bringing you down.
How To Switch From Negative To Positive
Since you’re most like used to always worrying and thinking negative thoughts, it might be a challenge at first to actually change your mindset.
Now, you always keep thinking “WHAT IF”. What if I lose my job, what if I’m not good enough for my partner, what if I will fail at starting a successful business, what if I’m in love with Justing Bierber, what if, what if, what if.
So instead of adding negatives to your “what if”, add positive things. For example, what if I’m going to become rich, what if my crush is in love with me, what if I find a million dollars on the ground, what if I never get sick again.
This way you will slowly rewire your brain from thinking negative all the time. Positivity will become your habit and you won’t be able to imagine your life without this mindset anymore.
For this to work, you have to feel good about these “positive worries”. Your “what if” has to feel true. What if you become a millionaire? You have to feel it happening. You have to believe it.
I myself, barely have any negative thoughts going through my mind anymore. I used to be really negative all the time and I wasn’t happy at all.
Now, even the smallest things make me happy, because I found peace in my own mind. I removed the negative thoughts from my brain!
The More You Do It, The happier you will become
Once you start shifting you mind to the positive side, you will slowly feel happier and happier every day. Your whole world will be different. You will see it in so many different colors. It won’t be black and white anymore.
You will attract wonderful events and opportunities to your life. Confidence and security will come by and knock on your door as well.
Just remember, you are in control of your life. You choose to be either sad or happy. Nothing else can impact you if you don’t allow it.
You want to be rich? Well, don’t wait for luck or something like that. Take action towards your goals TODAY and visualize yourself as a successful person.
Just look around your room. Look at all the objects that are there. How do you think they came into reality? At first, it had to become an idea. Someone visualized it inside their head before it was even real.
Once you visualize something in your mind, it will manifest into reality.
Don’t Forget To Take Action!
So, once you actually manage to change the way you think and remove the negative thoughts from your mind, you have to start taking action.
Positive thoughts alone won’t make a really big difference. Sure, it will definitely make you much happier but if you want to manifest your desires, you simply have to take action.
Keep visualizing your goals, visualize that you’ve already achieved what you want and then you won’t even notice how slowly you’re changing your personality.
After a year of doing this, you will look back and say “Woah, I’ve changed so much and I couldn’t be happier about it“.
What was the first thing you’ve manifested once you became aware of the law of attraction? Comment below!